River of Names & Cathedral

River of Names, is again a story about abuse, incest and poverty. The narrator (Allison) is drawing on her own life experiences to describe her times growing up at home. I am not to sure why we keep reading books like this, although the writing is very sensual, and flows very nicely. It is still hard to understand why as a professor you'd keep making students read about child abuse. To me there are so many other stories from writers and poets that don't cover this topic, and I'd prefer to read something a little lighter every now and then. There have been times that I have also said it "How wonderful to be part of such a large family." and although my family isn't huge I was being just as sarcastic... well probably not, it really makes me think that any family issues I had are nothing. The other quote that really stood out to me was "You've got such a fashion with violence. You've got so many terrible stories." After reading wiki about Dorthy Allison it seems that these stories are true, and I can really only relate her experiences with violence to what soldiers see at war, and how some have trouble letting go. it is hard that she was able to actually let go, and live a life. it is more of a survival story, of her growing up and living her life.

Finally I am able to read something and actually not cringe at the though of child molestation, pain and suffering. This was a really great story about developing a close personal relationship with someone that you first prejudged. I think everyone wants to be able to experiences life experiences and fit in to society, very few won't to be outside of society. and I feel that Robert does a good job being able to experience it. and who doesn't look good with a beard... The narrator was able to finally connect with Robert by stepping out of his shell and helps Robert see the cathedral by drawing it with his hand. Many people need someone to help them step out of their shell with their insecurities and be able to do things.